Know what’s realistic, and not overdue.

I just finished going through a trial session with a coach of mine: Linda Blaine
She introduced herself as a 56-year old grandma! The rapport was great throughout the entire conversation. And she definitely knows her stuff. She reframed my perspective on a lot of different aspects of my life. And I’m definitely excited about the new progress that will be made in the next year. If i learned anything in my past 22 years of living, it’s this: There are certain absolutes that need to be taken when going head first into a goal. And these absolutes are commitment and focus. Without it, guess what, it’ll take a lot longer, you’ll be spending energy on things that you think might matter but don’t really, you’ll be in a position of stress, and frustration. Remember the last blog I had made? About having a breakthrough? Here it is:

Allow time to balance yourself. Know what’s realistic, and not overdue. If it’s on the calendar, don’t let it slip.

In addition to this I personally have a new set of Board Of Directors: 3 of them to be exact: My Coach, Linda. And 2 of the guys I’ve known since I was a kid. Ryan and Derek. Congratulations is in order. These are the 3 that I’ve recruited to help me through ICA and if possible through out the rest of my time here on this earth.

“If you talk about it, it’s a dream. If you envision it, it’s possible. But if you schedule it, it’s real.”
Anthony Robbins

A breakthrough in the works…

Trust? What is it? How do we manage trust in our relationships? Well these are questions I need some answering to. Trust is something I don’t give away easily. And it may be the reason I’ve been feeling that way towards certain people and certain situations. Maybe it’s because I don’t trust myself enough to trust anyone else? Hmm… that’s something to think about. I’m flustered right now. I have work, school, my social life, and a ton of other crap to balance, esp my finances. And maybe since all these things aren’t taken care of is why I don’t trust myself. Who knows? I just want to obsess over my classes, building my business, researching my niche. But at the same time I need to schedule my personal life as well. All this balancing… it’s hard to figure out what’s right, especially in the relationship department. I think it’s time to revise my list. The last few fit. But somethings missing.

I’m flustered, confused, frustrated, and irate. This is the perfect position. Why? Because I’m so dissatisfied that something is bound to give. A breakthrough in the works.